Living in Love

Living in Love

By Sister Jo Ann Jansing, OSU

This year the planets and our liturgical calendars align to give us two events on the same day—one of penance and fasting, the other of candy hearts and romance, to ponder the meaning of love. I receive a little booklet monthly from the Oak Ridge Environmental Peace Alliance (OREPA), which contains daily thoughts from a variety of people that are collected and printed for its subscribers’ edification. Two of these “thoughts for the day” captured my heart in the January booklet. One, by John Neafsey, reads, “Love is not only a feeling. It is also a choice we make or action we take, regardless of the feeling of the moment. Steadfast love calls for tenacity and commitment over the long haul, even in trying times.” The other, by David J. Wolpe, states, “Romantic single gestures grab attention and acquire the luster of heroism, but it is the daily, draining effort to be kind, to rise above pettiness, irritation, and limitations that is truly arduous, and praiseworthy.” Each of these quotations gives the two faces of love that we commemorate each year, one on Valentine’s Day when our romantic love is aroused and the other on Ash Wednesday when we ponder what agape love is, that “long haul” love.

Agape, from Ancient Greek, is the word for the highest form of love, the love of God, which we strive to have for our fellow brothers and sisters as Christians. It is different from Philla (brotherly) love, or Eros (romantic) love. Agape is used to describe the love that is of and from God, whose very nature is love itself. The best description of agape love can be found in 1 Corinthians:

“Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, [love] is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails.”   — 1 Corinthians 4–8

As a kid, I remember how we counted our valentines each year at school and how we were thrilled or disappointed, depending on the number we received. It meant we were loved or we weren’t. I didn’t think of love beyond what others did to make me feel good. I didn’t pay as much attention then to the love that was shown by my parents as they sacrificed so much personally in order for us to have what we needed, their “tenacity and commitment over the long haul, even in trying times.” That came later as I matured. As a religious, I have witnessed many of my sisters making choices, “regardless of the feeling of the moment,” being faithful to the “daily, draining effort to be kind, to rise above pettiness, irritation, and limitations that is truly arduous.” I have witnessed wives and husbands whose commitment went far beyond the honeymoon and who strive to live 1 Corinthians 13 daily.

It’s still nice to be remembered on Valentine’s Day, but that kind of romantic love doesn’t survive what is demanded for commitment over the long haul, agape love. On Ash Wednesday we initiate the journey of Lent which commemorates the agape love of Jesus, who lived and died as one of us, faithfully committed to us “over the long haul” through life and death to resurrection. During this Lent I want to be inspired to move beyond the “giving up of candy” kind of practice to growing in the agape practice of daily commitment to my sisters, my family, my neighbor, my God. May it be so for all of us. May we enjoy our valentines when we have them but be committed to the long haul of agape love.

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Refugees and our call to speak for them

REFUGEES

They have no need of our help
So do not tell me
These haggard faces could belong to you or me
Should life have dealt a different hand
We need to see them for who they really are
Chancers and scroungers
Layabouts and loungers
With bombs up their sleeves
Cut-throats and thieves
They are not
Welcome here
We should make them
Go back to where they came from
They cannot
Share our food
Share our homes
Share our countries
Instead let us
Build a wall to keep them out
It is not okay to say
These are people just like us
A place should only belong to those who are born there
Do not be so stupid to think that
The world can be looked at another way

(now read from bottom to top)

Poem by ‎@brian_bilston

Sister Janet Peterworth states that, “The Ursuline Sisters of Louisville are called by their Charism to ministry that supports efforts to further social justice, to alleviate suffering, to promote peace and to preserve the environment. These calls come to us directly out of the teachings and actions of Jesus. The first Ursulines who came to Louisville were not welcomed because they were immigrants…and Catholic immigrants at that. Our ancestors knew the hardships of adapting to a new culture. We have supported immigrants by sponsoring families, assisting with their settlement, offering them employment and housing and helping them adapt to a new culture. Today we see immigration as one of the biggest social justice issues of the day. We stand with immigrants and refugees and want to see just and fair laws that impact their lives.”

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Standing with refugees is often controversial for religious sisters. A recent article* by Dan Stockman published in the Global Sisters Report states, “Women religious — who are usually outside of political debates — have not been immune to Americans’ rancor. Stances congregations have held for decades or even centuries have become controversial in some circles.”  Sisters often find themselves as the prophetic voices in the wilderness, crying out for justice in this age of self-interest and polarization. For those without a voice, our sisters continue to speak, just as Jesus spoke for the poor and marginalized.

* <http://globalsistersreport.org/news/equality/some-are-surprised-learn-catholic-sisters-support-certain-issues-51516#>

 

A Marshall County High School teacher shares her experience from last week’s shootings at the school

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By Ginny Schaeffer, Director, Angela Merici Center

A Marshall County High School teacher shares her experience:

“Here is what I want people to know about this past Tuesday at MCHS. Evil entered our building that morning and tried to destroy us, but God was there throughout it all. God was there to lead two precious souls home. God was there when students helped students escape, God was there when the administration, faculty and staff sheltered and aided students. God was there when He guided the first responders. God was there when students ran into local businesses for shelter and aid. God was there in our darkest hour. The only prayer I could say at that time, was Oh, dear God. He knew the rest. Evil may have entered our school but God was there and He conquered the evil a thousand times over. Evil will not win, not in our school or our community!” #MarshallStrong
–Becky Phelps

A week ago today a 15-year-old student opened fire on his fellow students at Marshall County High School. Two 15-year-old students were killed, more than a dozen others were shot and more were wounded in the mayhem to escape. Becky Phelps is a teacher at MCHS who was in close proximity to the shooting. She has shared her experience of that morning. May her ending declaration be true for all of us and our communities.

—Ginny Schaeffer, Director, Angela Merici Center

photo credit: Nicole Erwin, WKMS

MLK, St. Angela Merici and Community

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By Sister Agnes Coveney

In reflecting on two important days in January, Martin Luther King Jr. Day and Saint Angela Merici’s feast day, the word community comes to mind. Now here is something to ponder and pray over—the word “community.” We use it for the circles we’re in; such as the Ursuline community, the Ursuline Associate Community, the civic community, and so on.

The Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr. often spoke of the Beloved Community. The Beloved Community wasn’t free from human conflicts, but Dr. King believed that conflicts could be settled with peaceful methods and that people committed to nonviolence could cooperate with their opponents.

St. Angela encouraged her community, the Company of St. Ursula, to “Be bound to one another by the bond of charity, treating each other with respect, helping one another, bearing with one another in Christ Jesus.”

In the time spanning the January 15 holiday for the Reverend Martin Luther King, Jr., and the January 27 Feast of St. Angela, take some time to reflect on how you can bring peace, nonviolence, cooperation, respect, assistance and patience to the circles and communities to which you belong.

 

 

The Gift of the Magi

By Sister Janet Marie Peterworth

“The magi, as you know, were wise men—wonderfully wise men—who brought gifts to the Babe in the manger. They invented the art of giving Christmas presents. Being wise, their gifts were no doubt wise ones, possibly bearing the privilege of exchange in case of duplication.”

So begins the last paragraph of O. Henry’s famous story, “The Gift of the Magi.” It is a beautiful story of gift giving. One, I think, that should be read every Christmas before one does gift giving. It is about planning and love and sacrifice.

It is no accident that our editorial team chose to depict the Magi with an Ursuline Sister for the cover of our 2017 winter issue of our Dome magazine, because that issue is dedicated to the benefactors of the Ursuline Sisters and our ministries. It is dedicated to all of you who support us with gifts that reflect planning, love and sacrifice, and who support us with time, talent and treasure. Like the Magi, you are wonderfully wise people—people who bring gifts to the ministry of the Ursuline Sisters so that we in turn can bring the gift of the Gospel to others through our prayers, works and suffering. What a wonderful way for all of us to be connected.

And speaking of being connected, I read recently that Archbishop Desmond Tutu once said, “Do your little bit of good where you are; it’s those little bits of good put together that overwhelm the world.”

And so, on this eve of our Savior’s birth, let us each in our own way do our little bit of good no matter if it be time, talent or treasure; or prayer, works or suffering so that together we can overwhelm the world.

Thanks for being our friends and benefactors. God be with you in every way this Christmas season. You are our gift.

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Sacred Heart Model School students pose as the Magi with Sister Jane Stuckenborg to celebrate our Gifting issue of The DOME. Sacred Heart Model School Students L to R: Will H., Barret U. and Tristan J.

Advent, the Angel Gabriel, a dog and God’s promise

By Sister Paula Kleine-Kracht

When we received the schedule for who would contribute what and when to this Ursuline “blog,” I was taken aback. I was the first contributor with topic “Christmas” due on December 15th. My first reaction was: “Write about Christmas on December 15th!”

Now don’t hear “Bah, humbug!” in my response. Rather writing about Christmas in mid-December is about my wanting to relish the Advent Season. I love the Advent Scriptures with their deep sense of hope, the promise of peace, and the portrayal of all creation living together in harmony. So my “blog” will tell of my 2017 Advent experience and reflections.

When I returned to live on the Ursuline campus in 2014, I took up regular early morning walking. This provided me the chance to meet and greet some of our neighbors who enjoy walking on our property. About nine months ago, one of the couples began walking a lovely white dog (I later learned it was part Labrador). Personally I am “neutral” about dogs – I don’t fear them but also have no real desire to own on. However, this dog was strikingly lovely with just the “right amount” of friendliness, so I had to ask about its background. The owner told me that after their previous dog died, they searched the Internet and found a website on which they could get a rescued dog. “Rescued,” means dogs that have been removed from situations where they were suffering from severe neglect and trauma. They saw their dog’s picture and read his story – roaming the streets of Turkey, infested with mange, completely neglected, and very fearful. The dog was originally from Germany where his first name was “Hans.” Then he was abandoned in Turkey, with a new Turkish name meaning “ash.” The rescue group worked hard to bring him back from his terrible state of neglect, but described the dog as “very sad.” Despite all these circumstances, the couple decided to adopt the dog and named him “Gabriel.” They felt he had to be a bit “angelic” to have survived all his experiences. (Are you starting to see how my story is related to Advent?)

As I have read and prayed over the Advent reading accounts of the Angel Gabriel’s appearance to Mary, my animal friend Gabriel and his life story have come to mind quite often. Gabriel’s wandering from Germany through Turkey to Louisville reminds me of the wandering Mary and Joseph looking for a place to give birth to a very special son, a Savior of all creation. I am reminded of the many refugees who are currently wandering through our world seeking safety and housing for themselves and their families. As my dog-friend, Gabriel, found a loving home where he is able to thrive, my Advent hope and prayer is for peaceful and loving acceptance of all the immigrants of our world. I am grateful for the position our city has taken on immigration issues and the many local organizations that help immigrants successfully settle in our city. As Gabriel the Archangel promised, all the poor and needy are special to God.

The last piece of my story about my dog-friend Gabriel came on December 8th, the feast of the Immaculate Conception. I had commented to his owners that our evening celebration of the Feast Day was also the closing of our centennial year celebrating the dedication of our chapel. The gospel reading was that of the Angel Gabriel’s appearance to Mary. I remarked that, of course, Gabriel, the dog, would come to my mind in a special way. When I came home that afternoon, I found a special scrolled gift – a picture of Gabriel with a promise that he would be celebrating with me. The picture sits on my desk and keeps me reminded of God’s hope and promise to bring all creation to fulfillment. I feel sure that fulfillment will include the Angel Gabriel and the animal Gabriel.

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Reflections on our Chapel Centennial

In 1916 Mother Angela Leininger, superior, directed the construction of a convent on
Cherokee Drive (now Lexington Road), east of downtown Louisville. The building, which consists of residential wings and a chapel, replaced the original Motherhouse built in the 1860s at the corner of East Chestnut and Shelby streets in Louisville.

The center of the new convent, both in location and in the life of the Sisters, was the Chapel of the Immaculate Conception. The cornerstone of the new building was laid on
December 8, 1916. Exactly one year to that date, the building was dedicated and the first Mass celebrated in the Chapel. From archival accounts, “the ceremonies were private, the temperature was the coldest, and the snow was the deepest in Kentucky’s history.”

Over the years, the Chapel interior and exterior have undergone renovations and restorations to preserve its history, beauty, ambiance and craftsmanship. Work was done in 1944, 1957, 1980 and 1991. Today, the Chapel is in continual use by the Ursuline Sisters for Mass and daily prayer and by Sacred Heart Schools for Mass and other prayer services, and for special campus events.Ursulinesw Archbishop

At our closing Mass on Friday, Dec. 8, 2017, President Sister Janet Marie Peterworth remarked, “And so we have come to the end of our year-long centennial celebration for this beautiful and sacred space. Thank you, Archbishop Kurtz for being our presider and homilist. Glad you did not have to walk through knee-deep snow this year. It has been a wonderful year from start to finish. We have had culturally and musically diverse celebrations here. We have entertained hundreds of guests—meeting old and new friends along the way. These celebrations have taken us into new technology…at least new for us…as we have forayed into live-streaming so our sisters and friends off campus can participate in some of the celebrations in real time.

Of course, you know that this year did not just happen magically…even though it may seem that way, because it went off so smoothly. There was a planning committee as you might guess and many people were a part of that. I am not going to name everyone who participated less I forget someone or embarrass someone. But I do want to speak in the name of the Ursuline Sisters and say how grateful we are to all who helped to make this year memorable especially our Centennial Event Sponsors and Preservation Donors.

And so, this centennial year of the Chapel of the Immaculate Conception is officially closed. May it live on, however, in our hearts and memories.”